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The pair, who began dating in 2008, have had a number of very public breakups and makeups over the course of their rocky romance, one of which ended so badly that Ronson’s family filed a restraining order against the ‘Mean Girls’ star.

It seems, however, that the two are in a good place these days, writing flirtatious Twitter messages to each other after Valentine’s Day, with Lohan alluding to a romantic meal the couple shared.

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Afraid of one day going to jail? No worries! Christian Slater says it ain’t that bad.

Slater, the star of films such as “Heathers,” “True Romance,” and “Interview with the Vampire,” has been around show business since he was seven years old. But it’s been the last half decade that has truly been a rebirth for him — Slater, a former bad boy, has been sober for five years.

He sat down with Details Magazine to talk about a number of things, including his new show, “Breaking In,” but perhaps most striking is his ease with his past.

“Look, I could spend a lot of time kicking the s**t out of myself for the choices I made,” Slater says. “I was dealing with alcoholism and addiction, and there was a lot to take on without much life experience. Addiction is not pretty, and you don’t fully understand it unless you’re dealing with it head-on.

“That’s why when I see other kids struggling, I will sometimes reach out to them–a call or an e-mail.”

Included in that group of kids? Lindsay Lohan, who, having just gotten out of another rehab stint, is in the middle of dealing with jewelry theft allegations. His help is paying it forward, he intimates.

“I appreciated the people who reached out to me. It’s a brutal position to be in. You feel alone and confused over where your life went and how you got yourself in this situation.”

Lohan faces prison time for the alleged theft. Slater spent 59 days in prison in 1998 after being convicted of assaulting his girlfriend and a police officer while inebriated. To him, the prison stint wasn’t the worst thing in the world.

“Honestly, [it was] not so bad. Jail was a result of me not taking time for myself,” Slater reflects. “So I was forced to take some time for myself. It was necessary for me. When you’re going down that path, you either kill yourself or you’re forced to take time out.”

Slater talks about much more, including his relationship with Winona Rider and his friendship with River Phoenix — click over to Details to read the rest.

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After doing some investigating, we discovered the D.A. could drop the felony grand theft case completely. But that wouldn’t end Lindsay’s legal woes — not by a long shot.

Prosecutor Danette Meyers could go back to court and ask the judge to violate Lindsay’s DUI probation … on grounds she stole the necklace.

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Lindsay Lohan has not had what we might think of as a normal life. She was a child star, modeling by age three, staring in movies by age 11. She was living in a world where typical structures such as school, activities and friendships were hard to come by. Lindsay was already at a disadvantage. That alone could greatly affect someone’s view of the world and how they function in it. But she had other demons to deal with, namely her parents contentious divorce and custody battle over Lindsay and her siblings. That turmoil probably pushed her to the place she is in now.

As a family therapist, I can’t help but think that both of these situations, which came so early in Lindsay’s life and were ever-present during her development, have contributed to her current plight: a history of thefts, five stays in a rehab facility to overcome alcohol and drug addictions, among other transgressions that have ended up in the news. Here is why: when parents divorce, very often one or both parents look to compensate for what they believe they are depriving their children of–an intact family. They tend to feel guilty that they have taken so much away from their kids’ childhood, so it becomes extremely hard to say no to anything. Usually these parents only want to make their children happy, so they become overindulgent and say yes too frequently for fear of upsetting their kids and causing them more pain. Also, it is hard enough to deal with an angry spouse, so they look to avoid having their children mad at them too. As a result, kids simply learn that if they demand loudly and aggressively enough they can get whatever they want, and they come to feel entitled, believing they deserve it as well. When parents fail to set important limits and boundaries, guidelines that are needed to develop a sense of inner-control are absent, so children have a more difficult time functioning in a world of rules and laws.

With the recent allegations that Lindsay stole an expensive necklace, her behavior may well be about her emotional impoverishment and trying to make up for what she missed out on. Attempting to fill the emptiness, coupled with her never having learned to deal with disappointment, is most likely what motivated her; because it is certainly not about the money. This really is the story of the poor little rich girl.

From what I have read, it seems that Lindsay’s relationship with her mother has been more about being friends than a mother figure. Her mother appears to be in denial about her daughter’s drug and alcohol abuse. As is her father, who was recently quoted as saying, “Lindsay never stole a necklace.”

What chance does Lindsay have when the two people entrusted to provide guidance and direction are in the same fog she is in? It is like the blind leading the blind. Her father has been fighting the legal system his whole life. It is what she knows and she has identified with him in her continuing legal battles. His ongoing combat with his ex-wife has simply added fuel to a roaring fire that burned away any possibility for Lindsay’s learning to relate in a respectful and acceptable way since he has not been a proper role model.

The bottom line is that when parents are divorcing, as daunting as it is, it is really imperative that boundaries and limits are set and upheld. Rather than fearing that you are denying your children and making them more unhappy, know that, in fact, it is a gift of love to give them a much better shot at being a strong, functioning adult.

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They say the best advice comes from experience. In that case, Lindsay Lohan may want to listen to these very, very wise words.

Charlie Sheen made appearances on Monday and then again on Wednesday on DirectTV’s “The Dan Patrick Show,” talking his battle with addiction — and, when asked, giving a few words of advice to Lohan, who is suffering with her own addiction and legal issues.

“You get Lindsay on the show, I will call in,” he told Patrick. “I’ve got some advice for her. I’ve got some things I would recommend she consider because I don’t tell anybody what to do. Work on your impulse control. Just try to think things through a little bit before you do them.

“I was not there in the store, the necklace, the thing, the bracelet, who cares? They’re so desperate to vilify without fact,” he continued, talking about her felony theft charges and lashing out at a media he’s battled with himself.

Good advice for the both of them.

Sheen didn’t let himself off the hook, either.

“People need to understand how supremely grateful I am that someone stepped in here,” he said about the intervention that followed an epic weekend of partying and doing drugs with porn stars. “I don’t want to say who, but you know, basically, Viacom showed up at my house and said ‘Dude, it’s getting really obvious and we’re really worried about you. We don’t give a rat’s tooey about the show, we care about your health.’ So, they came in and just man to man and said ‘We have to shut it down.'”

Sheen then spent a few weeks rehabbing in his home.

The troubled star also insisted that he never showed up on set drunk or on drugs — but he didn’t always give it his all.

“The shape I was showing up in was epic, was beyond comprehension,” Sheen admitted. “[I’ve] never been drunk, never been high on the set once. But, I would show up not having slept much. Doing a network run through and asking the director, Jamie, to move my mark a little bit so I could be next to a piece of furniture or a table so I wouldn’t fall over. That is an expert move by a seasoned professional. I’m sorry, an amateur stays on his mark and then falls over during the run through.”

Sheen also mentions a girlfriend — whom he says will remain nameless to avoid “turning her life upside down.”

You can listen to the interview here — all quotes come courtesy of DirectTV’s “The Dan Patrick Show.”

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