Oh Noes: Toxic Gays Posted by: Alyk in Lindsay Lohan   According to TMZ, Lindsay Lohan’s struggle to stay sober is being ruined by her bug-eyed homeboy Patrick Aufdenkamp. Lindsay’s friends claim Patrick is a bad influence on the starlet,and seems ok with her falling off the wagon. His name is Patrick Aufdenkamp, a friend/hanger-on of Lindsay’s since well before she went to rehab, dating back three years. Multiple sources close to Lindz tell TMZ he’s been putting her in too-close proximit